About the author: We are a local Montreal couple (BG) helping to bring excitement and fun into consensual girls lives through threesomes with us, roleplaying, and sexual education and tips and tricks.
Misconceptions: That because I’m bi and poly that I will do aoynne anytime anywhere . or that because I’ve got a husband, a boyfriend, and another couple that are FWB, that I spend all my time in bed. (All the ones I’m not married to live just far enough away to make jaunting over on a whim not practical.)My husband and I have talked this over a lot over the years, and come to the conclusion that for us polyamory is a deeply hardwired thing, deep as our sexual orientations, and about as movable; which is to say, we could make ourselves act monogamous, just as we could make ourselves act straight. So asking what we get out of it is like asking what you get when you come out of the closet; you get yourself, and can give it to your partners. I wouldn’t trade that for anything. Swinging and polyamory; I think it’s mostly semantics, really. I tend personally to put relationships that are more about grinding bits together and less about long talks about life, the universe, and everything in the realm of swinging, but that’s my prejudice. And yeah, if it’s not about love, you’re doing it wrong.
Your guide to having and enjoying a threesome tonight in Montreal
Misconceptions: That because I’m bi and poly that I will do aoynne anytime anywhere . or that because I’ve got a husband, a boyfriend, and another couple that are FWB, that I spend all my time in bed. (All the ones I’m not married to live just far enough away to make jaunting over on a whim not practical.)My husband and I have talked this over a lot over the years, and come to the conclusion that for us polyamory is a deeply hardwired thing, deep as our sexual orientations, and about as movable; which is to say, we could make ourselves act monogamous, just as we could make ourselves act straight. So asking what we get out of it is like asking what you get when you come out of the closet; you get yourself, and can give it to your partners. I wouldn’t trade that for anything. Swinging and polyamory; I think it’s mostly semantics, really. I tend personally to put relationships that are more about grinding bits together and less about long talks about life, the universe, and everything in the realm of swinging, but that’s my prejudice. And yeah, if it’s not about love, you’re doing it wrong.